
Dearest Friends,
I’ve been delighted this summer to see my apartment full of young people who feel free to drop by and to bring friends along—with or without an invitation.
As I talked with Glen, a young man who had invited some of his friends to join him in hanging out at my place, I learned that their summers are boring. They have nowhere to go and nothing to do, said Glen. They do nothing but play computer games all day long, spending a lot of money just to kill time! So they are happy to spend time at my place instead. We play games, eat together, get to know new friends, go for walks, and discuss topics that are of interest to them—“how to spend a balanced summer vacation,” “how to study effectively,” and “how to relate to parents.” One afternoon it occurred to us that we could hold a “Mini-Youth Camp” right there in the Honeymoon Road compound where I live. The young people were excited, and their parents were happy, not only to give them permission to attend, but to partner with us in putting on the camp this past April 21-23, 2006.
Some of their parents donated cash or foodstuffs, and one of them volunteered to help cook for us. Students Diane and Jessica helped me choose a theme (“Nurturing relationships with God and with others”) and identify topics and issues affecting them as young people. Among the topics we decided on: becoming a member of God’s family, relating to parents, forgiveness versus bitterness, and making right choices when it comes to relating as brothers and sisters. We schedule timed too for “getting-to-know-you” activities, and for a film showing and discussion on “The Passion of the Christ.”
the “dorm.” Eric and Jenny Velasquez shared on "relating as brothers and sisters" and my Navstaff colleague Alma Villacarlos spoke on the importance of the Word of God. Jackie served as “chief cook,” while I oversaw the “camp” as a whole and delivered the messages on “how to become a member of God's family” and on “forgiveness versus bitterness.”
Ministering to teens is draining but exciting and challenging as well. These young men and women are hurting and need healing, but they are open…and spiritually hungry. Said Glen’s friend Dan during one of our sharing times, “ I realized that it is wrong to take advantage of girls; I have to respect them.” Another shared with tears that “I have wronged many people and I need to ask their forgiveness.” Glen himself indicated that he had become convinced the Bible reading is vital. And four of the guys and six of the girls indicated that they want to meet with me regularly to discuss the Scriptures.
This ministry to youth has become an opportunity to reach out, not only to teens, but to their parents and extended families. Joel’s grandmother had witnessed one of our youth meetings and was eager to see her grandson attend our camp. At the end of the camp, the young people attending gave flowers to their mothers and thank them for allowing them to join the camp. Diane and Stephanie’s parents were so intrigued that they began sending food to our meetings; their mother even joined our birthday fellowship. Parents text me to tell me that they are glad that their kids are happy and safe with the group. I am hopeful that these new friendships, not only with the youth, but with their parents, will enable me to organize a biblical community among families in the neighborhood before long. Please pray with me to that end!
I am grateful to the Lord who supplies ideas and energy, and to you faithful friends who back me with your prayers and gifts. God bless you!
Weng J. Amper 1 Honeymoon Road, 2600 Baguio City, Philippines Mobile: +63 9154347837 Home: 074 6379548
Email: wengarz@philnavs.org; wengartz@yahoo.com website: philnavs.org/wengamper